One of the greatest gifts that god gave man was the gift of music. There is nothing evil in music and dance. If you dance to honor god and you play music to give him glory regardless of the type; you are glorifying god. David danced for God. Jesus attended weddings. And if you look at Jewish weddings. They dance.
Of course I believe there are limits to the way we dance and the impressions we give. That's called accountability. The words we choose in our music has accountability. We need to keep our words more humble and endearing and less about the flesh and what we do or don't do with each other.
I believe that love and passion is better when your alone with your true love. No one has to know to what degree you may go. Woman don't want to be ogled but they ware clothes that are too revealing. They should leave something to the imagination. Studies show that men prefer woman in whole bathing suites rather then a bikini. It's because there is a surprise in the end.
Men need to be less about the flesh and more about respect and true love. It's less confusing and less dangerous. Meaning he would be less likely to pick up a disease. I feel men need to return to some of the old fashion values. Not all traditions are bad or outdated.
I'm willing to admit that I love to dance. And sometimes I may dance sexy, but usually thats for my partner or when I want to ham it up. To me music is a release. I forget all of my troubles for the day. In that moment every problem disappears. And I don't care whose watching. But I'm not going turn my body in to a brothel or strip club.
Woman love romance, a man who opens doors and a man who really wants to get to know her. So abstinence can be a good thing. You find something remarkable about the person your dating. You can start as friends in every way that a friend should be. NO sex. So that when you do fall in love; you'll know it's real. You know exactly the likes and dislikes of your partner. Then when you decide to take those sacred vows. The words will have true meaning; and the chances of having a successful marriage will increase.
Do it for your children. There aren't too many families anymore that don't have half-siblings. Of course there isn't anything wrong with that. My point is stay together as long as you can. Your children will be happier for it. They do better in school around a family setting. Such as: eating at dinner together, game nights and watching movies. (Family night)
If your being disrespected or abused in any form; Or if your children are being harmed, then it's time to leave. Thats goes for men and woman. You will know your partner is right for you by the words that come out of their mouth. They won't curse you; they will bless you. Their love will not be selfish or self centered. It's about two people in agreement with one another. If you argue then separate for a moment. But come back together so that you don't stray from one another.
Every relationship comes with good and bad. That's why we vow till death do us part. Not till we kill one another. A natural death after many many years of love and memories. To love and cherish one another. To have and to hold. Think about those words. Have you been loving and holding your partner? Do you treat your partner like you cherish every moment with them? Do you have mutual respect?
So listen to music and try to get a feel for the real message. It's beautiful that God blessed us with angels to watch over us. They're also responsible for writing everything down. Will your name be in the book of life? They record everything. Even things we do in secret. In the end they will be revealed your secrets to the world. Every eye shall see your sins and your transgressions. Nothing will be hidden for long. Food for thought. Now enjoy the video.
Written by Donna C. Ledesma
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Reference : Youtube: DJ Inigins, Secret Garden, In Our Tears By Glouco Pasera Angels
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